Hello to ‘Mum’. Thank you for helping, it means a lot. I’ve felt very alone (and threatened) while trying to work out what to do, and it’s really good to have support.
I don’t think you should get ANY abuse and hassle from Tenants, it’s completely wrong. The system needs to serve and protect both sides, it shouldn’t be biased.
I feel that my Tenant is a very dangerous individual, and the more I try to ‘close in’ on him, and the more I expose of his nasty life, the more vicious he gets, which is why this is so hard. I can see that he would defend any attempt to close the house, and he may try to set the Police on me if I blocked him from using it. He would also break in. He tells terrible lies (to anyone, including Police) and so does his son. He calls himself “Lord” (but isn’t a Lord). Very difficult guy.
The lawyer seems good and she seems up to date with all the current rules. She’s suggested collecting evidence, but the Tenant has fought back and says he refuses to be watched, he claims it’s “intimidation”. It’s useful to know that I could post any Notice myself. (And send 2 copies, as you did.) Maybe I could try that, for the Section 8. I don’t have much spare money…who does? I can see myself ending up penniless if this bad tenant decides to battle it out, just because he can. That’s very worrying.